Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Law of Attraction: The Need to Overcome Self-Sabotage ...

If you're struggling to achieve your aspirations, despite being inspired and knowing exactly what to do, yet things still do not seem to fall in place, you may be self-sabotaging yourself. How? What's really happening when you sabotage yourselves?

Firstly, let's not forget the power of your subconcious mind. You create your own circumstances through your subconscious mind. Most individual have been conditioned to think and react negatively whenever uncertainties loom ahead due to an instilled fear, fear of the unknown, fear of failure, fear of regret, fear of change and so on. Subconsciously, you are frightening yourselves into self-sabotage!

Before anyone can overcome self-sabotage, there's a need to explore your thoughts, emotions and actions. You need to understand where these fears are coming from and how they are influencing your actions or inactions. Once you have determined the causes, you can then take steps to prevent it from happening in the future.

As an example, you want financial prosperity. You are inspired and know exactly what to do to energise yourselves and the infinite intelligence sends you leads in the form of opportunities and ideas. But subconsciously, you may be frightened by the thoughts of failure or change. You understand the risks you have to take, yet you become weakened in your actions. You react too slowly that the opportunities slipped away.

On the other hand, you may be frightened by the thoughts of regrets or missed opportunities, so you just jump right in without any evaluation. You react too quickly that you failed to realise whether you have the know-how or if you are prepared for the long haul.

As another example, you may dream of a successful relationship. You energised yourself well that you found yourself in a relationship that you always dream of. But no matter what you do, it still did not last. Perhaps subconsciously you fear making the wrong choice. Even if the relationship hits the mark, you belief the next relationship could possibly be better.

You have no awareness that there are destructive efforts from within your subonsciousness due to the uncertainties in your mind caused by your doubts and fears. Prepare to ask yourself what you are afraid of. Explore any possibilities from your past to present to help you get out of the self-sabotage rut. When you have established an insight into your inner fears, you will rein full control of your thoughts, emotions and actions. You will be able to create the outcomes the way you want and stop the self-sabotage.

Am I sabotaging myself? It's a question I've been asking myself for weeks. And the answer ... ohhhh ... regretfully, a resounding YES!!!

While I've worked hard to remove the negative spell of the past year, certain situations or persons sometimes trigger the memory and emotional reactions. It feels as if I'm on “auto-pilot” with little control over my reactions of anger, sadness, fear, guilt or even, jealousy. I am the saboteur to my own desires, denying myself from what I am capable to achieve in the shortest of time whenever I lose control. I know I need to reclaim my control over my subconscious mind. I need to strengthen my psychological immune system by making peace with my past. To forgive and to forget!

4 Bubbles:

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If we can use our mere minds to stop self-sabotage, can we use our minds to sabotage everyone else instead?

Dear 3Point8
If you have ever heard of the phrase "What goes around comes around", it would be unwise to harbour ill-intentions towards others. Further you'd realise that you'd turned into an happy person. The Infinite Intelligence will orchestrate all the frequencies released by everyone and return to you based on your thoughts and feeling.

Like James Allen says it:
"Our life is what our thoughts make it. A man will find that as he alters his thoughts toward things and other people, things and other people will alter towards him."

Very interesting post and one does unknowingly get into self sabotage. Have reproduced something similar which have posted in my blog

http://deepasubbaraman.blogspot.com/2008/05/10-steps-to-detect-and-stop-secret-self.html

Yes, many tend to self-sabotage unknowingly including ourselves. I just hope blogs like ours will help open their mind and soul to stop this destructive effort by their inner consciousness.

I've yet to check out your blog but soon. Please do continue to check out my entries on the Law of Attraction as I definitely would appreciate your valued input on this topic.

Thanks.