Friday, October 31, 2008

Today, inside my bubble ...

Today is such a wonderful day.

Met up with Jess for lunch and later in the evening, met up with Sue. It feels great catching up on the latest happenings, sharing our thoughts and of course, adding in some gossips.

"Many people will walk in and out of your life,
but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart."
~ Anonymous
Jess and Sue, thanks ... ... the next time, the meal is on me.

Happy Halloween!

Trick or Treat?
It's celebrated everywhere in the world today. Let's not be left out! Join in the fun!
Halloween Logo Maker - http://www.halloweentext.com

Thursday, October 30, 2008

A Random Act of Kindness ...

While flipping through today's newspaper, The Star, I came across a section appealing for financial assistance for a family that is in dire needs.

Three siblings aged 9 to 16 have been left to care for themselves when their mother recently died of cancer. Their father who's diabetic is struggling to provide whatever he could for them. It is heart-wrenching that these youngsters with so much ahead of them, are subject to such uncertainties at their impressionable age.

Friends, friends, friends ....
Let's share a little kindness and extend whatever assistance we could, whether cash or in-kind to help this family. I am sure whatever little assistance we could forward to them would go a long way.

Anyone interested to offer their financial assistance may issue the cheques to the "Ipoh Love & Care Society" with the name "Cheong Boon Kim" written on the back and sent to either:

1. Ipoh Love & Care Society
No. 43A, Jalan Tokong
31650 Ipoh, Perak, Malaysia

2. Perak MCA
No. 90-92, Tingkat Satu
Jalan Sultan Idris Shah
30000 Ipoh, Perak, Malaysia

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Law of Attraction: Eliminating Limiting Decisions

I am a HR Manager in a small enterprise. Not for long I hope.
I want to be retired before my 46th birthday.

Today, there was an ex-employee who came up to the Management appealing to be re-instated into employment. He is a very young chap, married with child but he is not an exemplary employee in the company. During his employment, he was tardy and acted arrogantly.

Earlier this month, he absconded without repaying an outstanding advance taken from the company earlier. On top of that, he also privately owes his colleagues money that he had borrowed over time. He claimed to be under tremendous pressure because he could not even afford to pay his house rent as his salary had been deducted by the bank for outstanding hire-purchases. As he was out-of-his-wits and felt helpless, he decided running away was the only option.

How did he get himself into so much debts? Where's the priority? Regardless, debt is debt. It is easier to get into debt than to get out of it. This will remain so, as long as he continues to make limiting decisions like running away or refusing to dispose unnecessary hire-purchases or maintaining false prestige.

Limiting decisions often times limit us and keep us from being able to create the future the way we want it. All our limiting decisions can keep us from experiencing the full range of choices that we really have. It deny us from making positive decisions to move forward eventhough it may be right there under our nose!

Everyone of us has our own debts or liabilities whether avoidable or unavoidable. Use the power of our subconscious mind to turn down limiting decisions. Allow positivity into our mind, we will attract the abundance in the universe ... our bills will definitely get paid!

Gender Differences: Are Men & Women Different?

Everyday on my way to work or home, I would normally tune-in to Fly.fm, a local radio station. This morning when I switch-on the channel, the DJs were debating on 'Emotional Differences Between Men & Women'. Arguments among the DJs and opined callers made me smile all the way to the office.

Are men and women really that different? Of course, apart from the apparent physical appearance, can we really say men are different from women or vice-versa?

In our Asian conservative culture, sexism had been a practice for ages where men had been raised to believe that they are far more superior than the women. It was only in the last century that feminism made it possible for women and men to conceive equitable human relations between the sexes. So why do we still insist on any differences?

Today, such stereotyping should not hold any more ground. Men and women today are privileged to at least a basic education or higher education if the determination exists. Men and women are now pitched onto the same playground to prove their worth. This change has now empowered women in many fields once dominated by men. Admittedly, there are women who have become better achievers than men.

So, are men more emotional than women? Are women more petty than men? Are women weaker than men? Are men faster than women? And so on ...

Generally, no one individual is the same with another. Their attitudes, aptitudes, skills and beliefs will differ. It is these characteristics that give each individual their unique abilities, irrespective men or women.

It is the Law of Attraction, using the power of the mind to achieve what was perceived impossible that determine the achiever. As Henry Ford said, "If you think you can do a thing or think you can't do a thing, you're right."

In this modern day, men and women have learnt to compliment each other to live up to their potential, to balance their strengths and weaknesses in order to lead a productive and meaningful life. Let's learn to appreciate and respect your male or female counterpart.

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

The Infinite Abundance Awaits Me ...

Somebody has just won the RM20 million Jackpot!

Someone asked me this morning,
"I wonder how it feels to have won so much money?"
All I can say is,
EUPHORIA! ... ELATION! ... JUBILATION!
INCOMPREHENSIBLE HAPPINESS!

According to Sonia Miller, "Prosperity is our Birthright". Therefore, there is plenty of these abundance out there and it is enough for everyone. I am in the process of receiving these abundance.

Six Ghosts of Fear #4: The Fear of Ill-Health

As of today, I have no fear of ill-health because I am in control of my body. Today, I observed these proofs when ...
  • I maintain a healthy diet.
  • I fortify my system with the right supplements.
  • I maintain my fitness by being physically active.
  • I distance myself from negative emotions to reduce stress.
  • I am grateful for everyday and everything that comes my way.
Wellness is our right. It is not a privilege. Reclaim it today by adopting a healthy lifestyle. Healthy living can lead you to a vibrant and fun-filled existence.

Monday, October 27, 2008

From Flab to Fab ...

Last Friday, while reading the Star papers, I came across a book review, aptly headlined as "Operation Downsizing". It was a review on the book "Champions: Body for Life" by Bill Phillips, a fitness entrepreneur.

When Bill Phillips first came out with his bestseller "Body for Life: 12 Weeks to Mental & Physical Strength", it was manual guide to his programme that will help radically change one's body in just three months. "Champions" is his follow-up book. Now, I am not going to talk much on this book which I have yet to read.

What interests me from the review is that this book is yet another testament to the power of the mind in manifesting a burning desire. In this case, from flab to fab!

As I opined earlier, looks is not important as along as we are happy with ourselves. But let's not forget the bigger picture. Attempts to change our looks may not necessarily be for vanity sake but for health reasons. There are growing evidence to show that our modern lifestyle has changed so drastically that many are developing health problems such as cancer, diabetes, heart disease, hypertension and so on. To lower the risk of such health problems, we need to take charge of ourselves and make that ever important decision "I need to change!".

From young, I was never a small person. I was fat as a child and plumb in my teens. Then I joined the workforce. Having made my own money, I splurged myself with nice clothes but of course, I need look good in them too. So, I changed my mindset, "I must slim down". I was healthy as an ox then, medical leave was rare throughout the years. Exemplary employee huh? My weight went from 66kgs to 53kgs. I was proud of my achievement though my pocket was getting much much lighter and my wardrobe was running out of space.

Then I married Ray and after having my son, Nicky, my weight shot up so much that I am embarassed to even mentioned it.

Besides, my family has a history of diabetes and hypertension and it is only a matter of time that I have to face these health problems. I was diagnosed a diabetic in February 2006. Stories and images of amputated limbs was going round and round in my head.

Again, I decided to change my mindset, "I must reduce my weight and increase my physical activities". I need to if I want to have a fruitful life. I was 65kgs then and today I am proud to say that I have another 5 kgs to loose to reach my desired weight of 53kgs. I feel great that my diabetes is classified as 'satisfactorily under control'.

My point is that once we have made that decision to change and focus our thought on it, we are able to harness that power from within to turn what we don't want into what we do want. We are the captain of our own ship. We steer it whichever direction we want to go and how fast we want to get there.
If anyone aspires to turn that flab to fab ... no methods or programmes can do the work unless it has been decided from within you. Yeah, nowadays there are plenty of slimming centres and slimming diets abound. But they are only the half-way mark!

Happy Deepavali 2008

Today, is Deepavali!

It is also known as the Festival of Light and is celebrated universally by Hindus. As light dispels darkness, this festival symbolises the victory of good over evil. Here in Malaysia, it is observed as a public holiday.

At dawn, Hindus will perform the ritual oil bath which signifies a cleansing of the body and soul. Following this symbolic rite in purification which marks a new beginning, they will visit the temple where shrines of Hindu deities are encircled with flower garlands.

The entrance to a Hindu home will be decorated with the ‘kolam’, an intricate floral design on the ground which signifies religious believes. This religious connotation, revolves around the Goddess of Wealth, the deity Lakshimi. Many believe that the Goddess Lakshimi would only enter a home with a ‘kolam’ at the entrance.

To all my Hindu friends and colleagues,
"HAPPY DEEPAVALI!"

Sunday, October 26, 2008

Judge Not Others ...

I must confess! I have acted selfishly today.

There is this girl who operates a foodstall in my neighbourhood. She has a porcelain-clear complexion though she's quite plumb. She look so sweet with her dimpled smile. Everytime our eyes met, she would flashed a broad smile.

Today is her day off and I bumped into her while having brunch at a 'dim-sum' restaurant. She was there with a young chap, presumably her boyfriend. From afar, I scanned the young chap and remarked disappointingly to Ray, "she's so pretty but the guy is not good-looking at all".

By whose standard am I judging this young chap whom I do not know at all? By her standard, he is every bit the prince charming. Tsk, tsk, tsk ... I am really really GUILTY, in capital letters!

It is such human weakness to judge another solely by their external features, that subject us to focus our consciousness on our looks. I must not be too quick to judge next time but remind myself of what Helen Keller said,

"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen,
nor touched ... but are felt in the heart."

Saturday, October 25, 2008

Six Ghosts of Fear #3: The Fear of Death

Death ...
It is an inevitable life experience that no one wants to face. We can't hide, we can't run or stop it. All of us have to accept that it's sooner or later. Be it our own or that of our loved ones. Death is 100% guaranteed!

Today, I made a decision to change my mindset about the fear of death. If it is inevitable, then why fret over the fishing trips or worry over a growing child. I should be thankful for each new day and enjoy this gift of life before death becomes of me. I should be grateful for each new day I am blessed with my loved ones.

Our bodies are only mortal. A physical apperance that makes us visible. What truly makes us is our soul and spirit from within us. They are eternal and will continue to live even when our mortal bodies had turned to dust.

Whether we are Christian, Muslim, Buddhist or Hindu, there is one common belief. That the Infinite Being has only goodness planned for everyone and they continue into eternity. This is Faith. In Faith, we shall have Trust. A trust that when we leave our mortal bodies, we are continuing with the future purpose of the Infinite Being. Like a job promotion, we are being promoted by the Infinite Being. We should be excited of what lies ahead. So, why fear dying?

My Stairway to Heaven

How we embrace the notion of death is entirely a choice. To have trust that there is a future after death, will help us cope with the present circumstances. The reality of separation from our mortal bodies and the separation from our loved ones.

So, from this day forth, I shall unlock this prison door to my mind and release my doubts like,
  1. How do I face death?
  2. How do I deal with death?
  3. How do I deal with separation dealt by death?
  4. How do I carry on?

With Faith, I learn to Pray. When I pray, I am letting the Infinite Being know of my faith and asked to be blessed with more goodness. I shall pray for Salvation. I shall pray for Forgiveness. I shall pray for the Strength to sustain my commitment towards my change for the better. With a open and receptive mind, I know the Infinite Being shall reveal to me everything I need to know at the right moment of time.

Friday, October 24, 2008

Six Ghosts of Fear #2: The Fear of Loss of Love of Someone

I have a great friend, Sue. We met when we were working in the same company in 1999. We clicked and have remained close friends even after we have both moved on to other companies. I would like to describe Sue as a gentle, loving, conscientious and patient person. In short, she is a gem of a gal.

However, I felt that life has dealt her hard blow as she lost her husband to cancer a few years back. But she is strong and has moved on. She became adventurous, pickng up diving, white-water rafting, climbed Mount Kinabalu and travelled alot. Because of her wonderful nature, she has a good circle of friends and a supportive family.

Many a times when I think of her, I tended to question myself "Can I be as strong had it been me?" I normally close my eyes as I'm overwhelmed with dread and immediately shake off the thought.

The love of my life, Ray, is a fishing enthusiast and is always game to travel the distance for a good catch. Hutan Melintang to the north, Kenyir Lake to the east or Rompin to the south. Sometimes, he'll go deep-sea fishing too.
I would be anxious whenever these trips are planned. Travelling at night in order to enjoy a good catch in the early dawn. I would insist that he calls me on his every rest-stops. While he and his friends drives excitely to reach their destination, I would be left an insomniac! It's all over again on the return trip!

Then there is my Sunshine.
A 17-year-old teenager with raging hormones, trying to assert his independence. As Ray and I try hard to allow him some freedom, we fear he will mix with the wrong group of people and leads a life he will regret sooner or later. Is he matured enough to face the outside world?

When we love someone so much, is this the free gift inside the box? Or am I just too much of a worry-wart?

Today, I realised that I have to erase this fear for the Law of Attraction follows whatever energy we are eminating and it is "like attracts like" that send more of what I don't want back to me.

Today, I attract into my Vibrational Bubble, faith in the Infinite Being, God who will guide and protect all my love ones wherever they are and whatever they are doing because God only has goodness planned for all of us.

To my friend Sue, the Infinite Being works in mysterious ways. You had choices and thus far have chosen wisely. I know you believe in the Law of Attraction. So, know exactly what you DON'T WANT in order to maintain a clarity of what you DO WANT. The infinite abundance of the universe will work its way to you.

Thursday, October 23, 2008

How important are looks?

Yesterday evening, while chatting with one of my ex-colleague, Jess, we broached the favourite topic, especially among women ... "Looks".

Most of us, I'm no exception and GUILTY as charged! Men fare no better cos' like hubby .... are always concerned about our looks. It remains in our consciousness from the moment we get out of bed in the morning till the time we retire to sleep at night.

Do I look good? Am I attractive? Am I beautiful? Am I handsome? And so on ... Yes or No, by who's standard? Who defined the parameters to ascertain what is and what is not beautiful? One man's perceived beauty need not be another's view point.

David Hume's Essays, Moral and Political, 1742: "Beauty in things exists merely in the mind which contemplates them".

So, shouldn't we rate our looks or beauty by our own standards? Do you know what's your defined standards? Mine? Sorry, I have no clue at all! "Beauty lies in the eye of the Beholder" but we choose to be disatisfied with what's given by the Beholder

  • My face is too round, square, long etc ...
  • My nose is too flat, high, sharp etc ...
  • My eyes are too small, too big etc ...
  • My body is too round, fat, thin etc ...
  • My boobs are too small, too big etc ...
  • My legs are too short, too long, stocky etc ...
The list goes on and on and on ... Why are we in contempt of the Beholder's standards?

Some features may be rectified through the latest beauty techniques, though there may or may not be risks. Then there are those we have to live with it for the rest of our life. If nothing can be done, why choose to remain unhappy about it? Anyway, these are only external, let's not forget our inner beauty. When possess true inner beauty, it radiates through from within to obliterate whatever small or big, flat or round, thin or fat, long or short features on the outside.

Accept God's given gifts and be GRATEFUL! Over time, gratitude turns us into a happier person, respecting ourself and exude confidence. According to the Law of Attraction, gratitude and being thankful attracts abundance.

Friends ... abundance from the universe comes in the form of friendships too. Irrespective if you have the looks by the conventional standard or otherwise, if you possess true inner beauty, you are in my treasure trove, my pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.

To my dear friend Jess, to me you always look beautiful anytime. Needless to say, Vincent definitely shares this sentiment. So, don't let anyone else make you feel lesser.

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Six Ghosts of Fear #1: The Fear of Old Age

Old age ... is it a punishment?

Just went for my facial treatment yesterday evening. Vanity, health or to stop the hands of time? Frankly, before yesterday, I would have considered these facials as remedy to counter the effects of 'age catching up on me'. I am conscious of growing old whenever I mentioned the number.

Today, I have decided that I shall overcome my fear of old age.
Today, I have decided that my facials are a necessity to counter the assaults of 'extreme environmental elements'. It is to promote skin health rather than stop aging.

Old age ... could it be so dreadful? No doubt, there are increased and reduced physical manifestations. We have noticed them in our parents and people's parents. I have noticed them in me already!

Just the other day at the clubhouse, hubby and I befriended another member, a friendly Indian chap. Being Asians, after all the small talk, popped "How old are you?" Our jaws dropped right to the floor. He is 50 and looked no older than 40 with two daughters in college. He looked even younger than us. How does he managed to stay so young?

In their book "YOU: Staying Young", Dr. Mehmet Oz and Dr. Michael Roizen said, "While aging itself may be inevitable, the rate of aging is certainly not. In fact, 70% of aging is affected by simple things you do -- or don’t do."

Well, old is just a number. Done right, aging need not feel like a punishment. The choice is within the grasp of our hand. Let's all grow old gracefully by doing it right:
  • Lead a healthy lifestyle
  • Engage in positive thinking
  • Practise spirituality
  • Always practise moderation
  • Be grateful for life and enjoy it

Pearl of Wisdom

I love the thought that as I grow older each day, I gain another day's life experience. Each year as I grow older and wiser, I am like an oyster developing my valuable 'Pearl of Wisdom'.

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Law of Attraction: Face Up to My Fears ...

Fear, fear, fear ... the debilitating effect it has on us. It can be numbing. Crippling at its worst. In fear we quiver, in fear we shall self-sabotage. That's why it's important for us to face up to all our fears.

Without fear, there will be no inner demons. Our inner demons are the negative element that will thwart us in our life's journey towards self-discovery, self-growth, self-enrichment and subseqently the 'Freedom to Live'. This is not an easy struggle but we have to.

According to Napoleon Hill in his book "Think And Grow Rich", there are "Six Ghosts of Fear" which are the cause of all discouragement, timidity, procrastination, indifference, indecision and the lack of ambition, self-reliance, initiative, self-control and enthusiasm.

Yesterday, I ransacked my inner self, running through my lifetime's drawers and shelves to seek out these 6 enemies that I may not realise exist. If they do, these ghosts may just be my stumbling blocks.

Voila! As if a recipe for the Chinese Hors d’oeuvre ... I have 4+2!

  • The fear of POVERTY
  • The fear of CRITICISM
  • The fear of ILL HEALTH
  • The fear of LOSS OF LOVE OF SOMEONE
  • The fear of OLD AGE
  • The fear of DEATH
Wow! Guess I have alot of work to do now. Getting rid of all these junks!

Anyhow, I feel so encouraged by the continuous self-discoveries I made so far while I harness the power to master the Law of Attraction.

Today, I am in the process of attracting all that I need to do, know or have to attract my ideal desires.

Monday, October 20, 2008

From the Queens: I want to break free ...

Looks like I have to wait to the next draw. "Habuk pun tak dah!"


Well, no despair cos' I am still in the process of winning that Jackpot!
I want and I will break free from my limiting beliefs!



Friends, friends, friends ...
I am not desperate, please. Just part of my affirmations.
Show me some support la!

Today, I observed this proof and discovered ...

I considered myself still a novice, a greenhorn in the matters of Law of Attraction. Other than reading people's blogs and articles available on the internet, I have only read 2 books on this. Today, I discovered another book of interest by Sonia Miller, "The Attraction Distraction: Discover Why The Law of Attraction Isn't Working for You and How to Get Results - FINALLY!".

On its briefs, the book seems to delve a little further into the manifestation of our desires. The title by itself makes the book a worthwhile reading adventure.

In our quest to master the basic principles of the Law of Attraction, I believe we should take time off to understand what Sonia called the 'Attraction Distraction' and comprehend why we are not attracting our desires at the speed we expect.
Me, I need to.
I realised without knowing my personal shortcomings, I will not be able to liberate myself from my limiting beliefs and sustain the positive thoughts in my Vibrational Bubble

I am convinced that the Universe is sending this resource (this book) to help me discover my true self and open my live to the abundances I crave for.

Today, I harness the power of knowledge for self-management and free myself from the shackles of doubts.

Sunday, October 19, 2008

Today, I observed this proof ...

For months, hubby have been pursuing the 4D for his new carplate. Today, I observed the proof that more and more he is closer to achieving his pursuit.

When he first took possession of the new car, a Lancer GT, he concentrated on all the permutations of his carplate and chassis number. It was impossible to wipe away the disappointment from his face whenever each draw misses by a digit.

It's almost 7 months now and I can see that there are no more misses. Twice, in the past 2 weeks, it was first prize with all digits in tow! Too bad he didn't 'pow'. I attribute these to his limiting beliefs.

To my dear Honey, "You are getting close. Remove whatever limiting beliefs. The speed at which the Law of Attraction manifests your desire will depend on the balance between your desire and your doubt."

Due to our culture and conservative upbringing, many of us have been conditioned to cast doubts at whatever possible circumstances, whether at home, school or the workplace. To withdraw this lifelong habit will seem tough but then, if there is a will, there will be a way.

Friends, friends, friends ...
Let's all try and turn over a new leaf. Today, I am in the process of removing this negative habit too.

Today, I observed this proof ...

In order to focus my attention on my Desires and maintain my positive vibes, I need to keep a record of proofs.


Today, I observed this proof when I won RM30 from Toto. 3 numbers out of 6, not bad. It may not be a big win just yet, but it can only mean that I need to increase my positive vibrations.

Alright, I am in the process of winning the Jackpot!

Saturday, October 18, 2008

Law of Attraction: Identify My Desires

    So what do I want? Do I have clarity? Oh yes! I promised to share my long list earlier. I'm keeping my promise. Here's my Desire Statement to raise my positive Vibrations,

    1. I love how it feels knowing that my health and fitness has improved everyday.

    2. More and more, hubby has become more sensitive and openly affectionate to me.

    3. I love how it feels observing my son maturing and displaying his filial piety.

    4. I love how it feels knowing that my son is putting in hardwork and will pass his SPM examination.

    5. I am so excited at the thought of winning the Mega Toto RM20 Million Jackpot.

    6. I love the thought that I have an abundance of money all the time and enjoy the constant inflow of money from known and unknown sources.

    7. More and more, I am receiving prizes and gifts from known and unknown sources.

    8. I love the thought that I have a huge amount of money in my bank account.

    9. I love the thought of enjoying constant freedom of buying whatever I want.

    10. More and more, I am meeting people and making new friends.

    11. I am so excited at the thought that I am retired at the age of 45.

    I must reset my vibes as "The Law of Attraction is unfolding and orchestrating all that needs to happen to bring me my Desires".

    Who knows, you may have the same desires. Then again, maybe not. What's important is to know exactly what you desire. So what do you want?



    An ancient chinese proverb says "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step". If it is worth doing, why not start your own Desire Statement now.

    Today, I am in the process of attaining the RM20 million JACKPOT!

    Today's another Jackpot draw. RM20,000,000!
    I want to increase my Vibrations by giving attention to my Desires

    Friends, friends, friends ...
    please don't laugh at me but with me. We all leave in a materialistic world, don't you agree. When people preached "Money cannot buy you Happiness", do you nod in agreement or do you have something to say? Me? Frankly, whoever's promoting this is probably living in Fantasy Island.
    "Money can buy you Everything" duh

    "No Money No Talk" ... right?
    I think I better take that back. Don't sound right.

    Everything is money nowadays. No one's going to be happy if there is no money to put food on the table, when money is barely sufficient to look forward to the next day.

    "Money can buy Happiness", that I believe.
    We all need money and I need money for my Financial Freedom.
    So what do I want?

    I want to win the Mega Toto Jackpot!

    I love the thought of winning the Mega Toto Jackpot!

    Friday, October 17, 2008

    Law of Attraction: I attract to my Life whatever I give my attention, energy and focus to, whether positive or negative

    Michael J. Losier, a Law of Attraction coach, says the Law of Attraction responds to whatever vibration you are sending by giving you more of it, whether it's positive or negative. It simply responds to your vibration.

    So did I send out all the right vibrations? Of course not! If I had, I would have strike the Mega Toto Jackpot by now! RM20,000,000 ... that's financial freedom all the way to heaven! Don't tell me none of you out there aren't eyeing that jackpot? Millions of people are and I am one of them ... don't laugh. I am serious about it! If one man can hit the RM19,000,000 jackpot and another RM16,000,000, who's to say it cannot be mine.

    Looking back the past 10 years of my life, I have come to realised that I did orchestrate my life's ups and downs. From being retrenched to promotions ... from loss of income to generous increments ... from betrayals to acceptances and many more little little incidences.

    Simply said, I attracted them through my own constant thoughts and attention because then, I did not know how to managed the good vibes from the bad ones.

    Now, I need to reset my vibrations. Continue with the good vibes. Though I can't totally eliminate the bad ones but turn them around instead. How?

    1. Understanding the significance of the words I use because thoughts are made up of words that affects my feelings into generating positive or negative vibrations; and

    2. Deliberate attraction, using the Law of Attraction more deliberately i.e. identify, focus and allow.

    I am still a beginner. If you wish to learn more, perhaps you could check out http://www.lawofattractionbook.com/ or you can buy the book, Law of Attraction by Michael J. Losier.

    "The Law of Attraction is unfolding and orchestrating all that needs to happen to bring me my Desires. I am so excited at the thought of attaining the RM20,000,000!"

    Today, I am in the process of making new friends ....


    Friends, friends, friends ...

    It's not easy accepting someone else's believe, I know. I am in the process of changĂ­ng hubby's mindset. He does keep an open mind and I hope you will too.

    Law of Attraction is a hot topic these days. They are applying it everywhere, personal development, child development, management training so on.

    Give it other names if you like ... a science or a concept or a theory, whatever. All of us are using the Law of Attraction right this moment. Just how conscious are we, your choice if you want to explore.

    If you choose to be open-minded on this subject , my 2-cents worth of knowledge tells me you will identify with it. If you do believe, what's wrong if you develop it or cultivate it or polish it ... anything but left idle. At least, you are moving things positively to your advantage.

    Where's that list of mine? Soon soon ...
    I am not procrastinating ...

    So what do I want?

    I truly believe what's deep inside our head determines how we feel and our reaction towards them. Good or bad, positive or negative ... we will re-act accordingly. But before we re-act, did we ever question ourselves what we want to achieve with our reactions. So what do I want?

    I always complained that money is hard to come by, why what I want is always belated, why am I still working ... why life so unfair, others are doing better than me, blah blah blah ...
    Stumbling across an article on the Secret, after reading the book repeatedly, got me really thinking. Happy or sad, Joy or anger, Fulfilled or emptiness, More or less ... I decide! So what do I want?

    The Secret is all about the Law of Attraction that says you attract into your life whatever you think about. Your dominant thoughts will find a way to manifest it to us. Simply put, it's a science of attracting more of what you want and less of what you don't want. Oprah even featured this on her show!

    If anyone's interested to know more, may I suggest http://www.thesecret.tv/. There are plenty more sites and blogs on Law of Attraction.

    So what do I want? Unhappiness is not an Option! I want,
    1. Financial freedom!
    2. Anything money can buy!
    3. Early retirement!
    Quite general still. Wait, I'll come back and share a longer list later.