Monday, August 2, 2010

My Bubble: Why do I need to explain myself …

1. When it’s no longer convenient for me to fetch the school kids …

2. Whenever I leashed up Bowie coz he simply pee and poo all over the place just to show his dissatisfaction …

3. When others only noticed the 10% punishment imposed on Bowie rather than the 90% TLC for him …

4. When I choose to maintain my current beautician instead of signing up with a new one for a lesser cost ...

5. When I did not attend church mass …

6. When I rarely 'balik kampong' to see my family in my hometown ...

7. When I’m feeling under the weather …

8. When I did not run for the past 2 weeks …

9. Whenever I choose to succumb to my sweet-tooth despite my condition ...

10. Hubby asked to massage his aching back but I refused …

Why should I need to explain myself to anyone whenever I choose to or not to do something … anything? Why should I feel guilty just simply being myself … doing things the way I considered the best option for my well-being?

4 Bubbles:

You are damn right that you need not explain yourself to anyone...cos' without those explaination, life still go on...But I do think Item 10 need abit of tact....yunno what i mean...they are your Hero!! Hee...Hee

Justification normally comes because of blame. If you are reproaching yourself for something that you have done, please don't. ^_^

no point of self justifying if u feel you are right. no one blaming you for it.

I didn't read this as a problem within your own mind, but a response to external remarks or questions. Questions are okay, but people trying to control you or make you conform to what they want is way out of line. You're a smart, responsible woman in charge of her own actions.