Thursday, August 4, 2011

Law Of Attraction: Being The Better Half In A Relationship

Everyone is in a relationship with someone. Every interaction we have with another from someone we just met to those who are very close to us amounts to a relationship. Naturally, everyone wants to build a loving and supportive relationship with their loved ones and friends and more so with that special someone whom they want to spend the rest of their life with. We are talking about creating that perfect romance or marriage.

However, many do overlook the mechanics of maintaining an effective and lasting relationship. It is not about seeking the perfect relationship but providing a supportive interaction in order to develop the successful relationship that you are searching for. The success and failure of any relationships depend basically on how well we relate to one another. If we have an existing problem relating to the other, how can we expect to have that perfect relationship?

Any law of attraction practitioner will tell you that you can attract that sought-after relationship by adopting a deliberate change in yourself. You will first need to have an effective relationship with yourself before you can expect the same from others. Loving yourself creates a positive vibration to attract a match from others.

However, what if you are already in a relationship that is unfortunately far from desired? Can the law of attraction help you change or improve that relationship? Well, it all depends on which you want to change or improve in the relationship. If you are thinking to change the other person in the relationship, then it is better to forget it. The law of attraction cannot help you change another person simply because you are not in control of his or her thoughts and emotions. Manipulating their thoughts and emotions into changing is unlikely to give you a lasting effect either. Therefore, it boils down again to a deliberate creation on yourself to make those changes that can turn your existing relationship around.

Remember this, “When you struggle with your partner, you are struggling with yourself. Every fault you see in them touches a denied weakness in yourself.” ~ Deepak Chopra

The initial step to improving your relationship is to identify and heal the triggering causes that have created the rifts or prevented you from your desired relationship. This is a healing process that will help you to remove any unwanted behavioral pattern that may contribute to the relationship slipping away. It is important to be honest with yourself in order to validate the true emotions you have been having about yourself. According to the law of attraction, your energy flow will improve positively as you come to terms with your true self and continually reduce your focus on your partner’s weaknesses. Rather than expect your partner to change to make you happy, you will realized that it is so much easier to make yourself happy by making the needed changes.

Based on the law of attraction, you are a magnet that can attract and repel others. When the level of goodwill rises in you, it can create a spiraling effect on others. When you have cultivated your own happiness, you will be in the best position to attract the people, situation and opportunities that will create more reasons for you to be happy.

Copyright © Wenny Yap 2011 All Rights Reserved. This article may be reproduced with my written consent, provided my name and link remain intact.

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