Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Today, inside my bubble ...

Law of Attraction and a marriage made in heaven … a poem on The Story of Marriage and tomorrow, a joke on growing old together. Probably by Sunday, I might just bore my readers to death by throwing in a gratitude quote on marriage too. Free Smiley Face Courtesy of What’s happening here?! Suddenly I’ve gone berserk … everything’s seem to have something to do with marriage!

Don’t jump the gun please … it does have alot to do with my own marriage but of course, don’t get me wrong. It’s so wonderfully fine that I can’t deny feeling proud every time I received compliments from friends and acquaintances, new and old. I’m just sharing my little expressions of happiness and the effectiveness of the Law of Attraction.

Many people expressed surprise whenever they hear us, Ray and myself, doing almost everything together like going clubbing, going to the gym, going for running meets, going for massages, playing pool, food-hunting adventures and so on. Together-gether … sometimes, wherever possible, we also roped in Nick, our son … not a boy but not yet a man.

Frankly, there’s nothing to be surprised about because many couples are already doing the same thing or if they’ve not, they can too ... why not? I’ve met a few couples and here’s one of them!

Like I’d posted earlier, the crucial question is “Are we willing to take responsibility for the state of our marriage?” Don’t blame it on our spouse “oh don’t share my interest” … our kids “they take up all my time” … work commitment “no time, deadlines to meet” … blah blah blah … Want or don’t want only, the control is in our hands. Which direction, we decide.Free Smiley Face Courtesy of


3 Bubbles:

Hahahahahahah....... OMG! Feel so shy lah! Thanks for featuring the two 'monkies". 'Running' a marriage is the most complicated thing in the world. It needs 4 hands all the time, plus all the 'extras' built in too. :)

Don't be Cheryl. A happy marriage is a great achievement. Salute!