Thursday, July 7, 2011

Law Of Attraction: Don’t Be Robbed By Being Judgmental

When people are happy, healthy and abundant, not necessarily in the monetary sense, they are the ones whom we can identify as having attained the true fulfillment and success in their lives. Kindness, generosity, selflessness, honesty, optimism and positivity are all packaged in them … they are the nice people who have been rewarded with the abundance of life for not being judgmental of anyone or anything or any situation. They are flexible and balanced in their thoughts and emotions.

Remember, the ‘like attracts like’ concept in the law of attraction. Be nice to others and in return, you will attract the same. The lesser we are at being judgmental of others, the more content-balanced people we will attract into our lives to help us attain the abundance in life.

Science has proven that our brains pay more attention to the negative. We tend to emphasize on the bad and accumulate negative judgments much more quickly. Allowing ourselves to be judgmental, making comparisons about whatever we see or hear of others can slow down the effects of the law of attraction on us. Being judgmental cause us to detour from our original focus on what we want and produces the opposite emotional responses that make our energy sluggish.

Sluggish vibes are not going to get us anywhere near what we want. Being a deliberate creator in the law of attraction, our life is a reflection of our predominant thoughts and emotions. It is important that we try to live right, to treat others as you want to be treated and have an attitude of empathy towards others. It is unfortunate that our minds have been conditioned to being judgmental but it does not necessarily mean we have to continue with it. Just being aware about what our mind is up to is a great start to gradually dissolve this mental habit.

Yes, we can live our lives without being judgmental by becoming friendly with the people around us and being open to the situations that surround us. Believe me, if you are a mean, judgmental or ruthless person, the forces of the Universe will eventually return to grab your successes, health or happiness from you. It is in a way how the Universe punishes us for that kind of unacceptable behaviors. We have heard so many times before, whatever goes around comes around! The success, health and happiness we are enjoying are only temporary unless we truly deserved them.

"Money will make you more of what you already are. If you're not a nice person, money’s going to make you a despicable individual. If you're a good person, money’s going to make you a better person." ~ Bob Proctor

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2 Bubbles:

I might be headed in a good direction. My wife was mad at jurors yesterday for finding an accused murderer not guilty (it was a mom suspected of killing her toddler). When I told her what the jurors may have been thinking when they voted, she got annoyed.

Okay, I'm not really headed in a good direction. When I was making allowances for the jurors, I was also thinking it would be fun to annoy my wife a little. =)

Hahaha ... you are very naughty!

I read about the case in the papers and well, sometimes circumstances may be deceiving. The evidence are not placed in our hands but the jurors. People's judgment may have already been clouded by the media and the gossips, we will never know.

The Universe works in its funny ways ... what goes around will come around. It's between her and the one upstairs.